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    there is a person who is not accepting that he have given divorce bt in actual ,he have said to her wife three times that i give u divorce in front of four persons...and wife is very religious so she leaves his home bt now that person is claiming that this is nt the way by which divorce is given in islam and he shows lot of videos of zakir naik and other mufti from internet search and claims that according to zakir naik ,saying three times in one time is counted to be one divorce and in period of edat if they want to live together they can live ,there is no haram like that... so we r so confused please give suggestion that what is right now n watch this video also ...
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    search in YouTube-dr zakir naik (talaq ki sharait )2008.
    When one door of happiness closes, another opens;
    but often we look so long at the closed door
    that we do not see the one which has opened for us. PAST IS A HISTORY,
    PRESENT IS WHAT YOU HAVE,
    FUTURE IS WHAT YOU ARE UNSURE OF,

    FORGET THE PAST,
    LIVE FOR THE PRESENT,
    HOPE FOR THE FUTURE.

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    Sis... Plz find out the link where u can get ur answer all about Talaak/Divorce which was given by most eminent Muftis's of islam.

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    Simple thing is that even if a person says that i give talaq to my wife and no one is there to hear this and he can hear what he said then talaq has taken place.
    Also if anyone gives talaq even if he considers it as a joke the talaq has taken place.

    3 talaqs are 3 simple

    Only wahabbies claim 3 talaqs to be one and dakir naik is one of them.
    Whats the qualificaton of zakir naik any ways ? i think no one knows it except that he is doing the interfaith dialogues.
    so approach ulema e haq not self made scholars.
    Hadrat Anas Radi ALLAH Taala Anhu reported that the Messenger of Allah Peace And Blessings Be Upon Him has said, “Everything has a heart, and the heart of the Qur’an is Yasin. Allah records anyone who recites Yasin as having recited the Qur’an ten times.”
    [Sunan Tirmidhi, Vol 2, Page 116 - Sunan Daarimi, Vol 2, Page 336]

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wahaj View Post
    Simple thing is that even if a person says that i give talaq to my wife and no one is there to hear this and he can hear what he said then talaq has taken place.
    Also if anyone gives talaq even if he considers it as a joke the talaq has taken place.

    3 talaqs are 3 simple

    Only wahabbies claim 3 talaqs to be one and dakir naik is one of them.
    Whats the qualificaton of zakir naik any ways ? i think no one knows it except that he is doing the interfaith dialogues.
    so approach ulema e haq not self made scholars.
    True Bhai
    Dr.Zakir Nayak is only specialist in Compararative Religion.
    He is neither a mufti nor aalim.
    He could only compare religions and say what is good.
    Our people due to lack of knowledge take people for granted.

    Recently, a widow's mother went to imam saheb of her mohilla to know that her daugter's husband is dead and how long she should be in iddah.
    The imam give his verdict that only 40 days enough.
    All of us were surprised when the widow was found in a marriage function and asked thro some ladies whether she has completed her iddah.
    All of this is happening due to unawareness of our religion. This people are not aware that who is Aalim or Moulvi or Mufti or Fazil. These all has a lot of difference .Only Mufti can issue a fatwa. That too he should followers of any one of Imams.( Viz Hanifi, Shaafi,Maliki and Humbli)

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    Quote Originally Posted by hassan1953 View Post
    true bhai
    dr.zakir nayak is only specialist in compararative religion.
    He is neither a mufti nor aalim.
    He could only compare religions and say what is good.
    Our people due to lack of knowledge take people for granted.

    Recently, a widow's mother went to imam saheb of her mohilla to know that her daugter's husband is dead and how long she should be in iddah.
    The imam give his verdict that only 40 days enough.
    All of us were surprised when the widow was found in a marriage function and asked thro some ladies whether she has completed her iddah.
    All of this is happening due to unawareness of our religion. This people are not aware that who is aalim or moulvi or mufti or fazil. These all has a lot of difference .only mufti can issue a fatwa. That too he should followers of any one of imams.( viz hanifi, shaafi,maliki and humbli)

    mere allah ham sab ko saccha ilam deh aur ham sab ko aapni aadiyath mein rekh. Ameen
    you are right ...
    When one door of happiness closes, another opens;
    but often we look so long at the closed door
    that we do not see the one which has opened for us. PAST IS A HISTORY,
    PRESENT IS WHAT YOU HAVE,
    FUTURE IS WHAT YOU ARE UNSURE OF,

    FORGET THE PAST,
    LIVE FOR THE PRESENT,
    HOPE FOR THE FUTURE.

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    bt wahaj bhai plz give me suggestion that if a person after giving 3 times divorce is nt accepting and in front of other pepole he is claiming that he didnt said like that so...n she should go in court bt she dnt want to go in court bc of further insult ...then what should she do ???????????
    When one door of happiness closes, another opens;
    but often we look so long at the closed door
    that we do not see the one which has opened for us. PAST IS A HISTORY,
    PRESENT IS WHAT YOU HAVE,
    FUTURE IS WHAT YOU ARE UNSURE OF,

    FORGET THE PAST,
    LIVE FOR THE PRESENT,
    HOPE FOR THE FUTURE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Beauty Of Nature View Post
    you are right ...

    Thanx Bhai

    Talaaq is a Taalaq. No body can nullify it if has been already committed. Or only Halaala is possible with the set out rules without any relaxation. Wahah Bhai will give the detail.

    After mentioning the taalaq in front of 4 persons, not accepting the truth is not correct. He should be forcibly separated. What about the 4 persons R they keeping mum?

    If so they are also like committing sin if the man is living with the women after mentioning taalaq in front of them.

    May Allah Subhanahuwa Ta'la show them the Right Path and be merciful to them .Ameen.

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    Can u provide the detail of what actually he said for divorce ? i.e the words that he used to give talaq ?
    Hadrat Anas Radi ALLAH Taala Anhu reported that the Messenger of Allah Peace And Blessings Be Upon Him has said, “Everything has a heart, and the heart of the Qur’an is Yasin. Allah records anyone who recites Yasin as having recited the Qur’an ten times.”
    [Sunan Tirmidhi, Vol 2, Page 116 - Sunan Daarimi, Vol 2, Page 336]

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