Thread: Help Needed

Originally Posted by shaista khatoon

please help me my husband has gone off me because other men look at me its not my fault i love my husband he dosnt understand how much i care for him i have 5 kids and he dosnt trust me i am faithfull to him i just done hajj and i dont go out anywhere because other men look at me what can i do he dosnt trust me please help me

sis its really sad that ur husband dont trust uuu...i dont undstnd one thing y men look at uuu...y u dont wear hijab?...if not start wearing it....

and evn if men look at u....wats ur fault....men have tendency of doin such things....

its said that suspicious nature had no cure....dont try to prove urself to be right....coz that will boost his suspection....do ur job religiously and pray to Allah subhan wa ta'ala for the same...surely ul find some way....

do things that pleases ur husband....

may Allah subhan wa ta'ala grant wisdom to ur hubby....and in the alms of the love between our Prophet sallallahu alaih wasallam and Hazrat Maa Khatija radi Allahu anhum, fill the love between u and ur husband....

its said that suspicious nature had no cure....dont try to prove urself to be right....coz that will boost his suspection....do ur job religiously and pray to Allah subhan wa ta'ala for the same...surely ul find some way....

right i agree some ppl have this habbit not mattter how much u prove ur self they won't trust u
it is sad dat after marriage kids they tie husband and wife relation more
but i don't know why is dat so as u said that u have 5 kids

do he love them >>>

8.17:
Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "The word 'Ar−Rahm
(womb) derives its name from Ar−Rahman (i.e., one of the names
of Allah) and Allah said: 'I will keep good relation with the
one who will keep good relation with you, (womb i.e. Kith and
Kin) and sever the relation with him who will sever the
relation with you, (womb, i.e. Kith and Kin).y is he punishing kids if he is suspecting u he will be punished by allah

i think u should do Parda when u go out if u dont do it....