Quote Originally Posted by nabila1230 View Post
i think arrange marriage is the best one, becoz parents alway taking good desigen for us,
Narrated by Thaabit al Banaani : "I was with Anas ibn Maalik and a daughter of his was with him. He said: 'A woman came to the Messenger of Allah (صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم) and offered herself in marriage to him. She said: ‘O Messenger of Allah, do you want to marry me?' The daughter of Anas RadiAllahu anhu said: 'How little was her modesty. How shameless, how shameless!' Anas said: 'She was better than you; she had a liking for the Prophet (صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم) so she offered herself in marriage to him.'"

(al-Bukhaari 4828)


Imam al-Bukhaari RadiAllahu anhu included this Hadeeth in a chapter which he entitled: "A woman offering herself in marriage to a righteous man."

Al-Hafiz ibn Hajar narrated that : "Ibn al-Munayyir said in al-Haashiyah: 'One of the subtle points of al-Bukhaari’s knowledge is that he from the specific story of the woman who offered herself in marriage to the Prophet (Peace and Blessings Be Upon Him) he derived a general principle; he understood that it is permissible for any woman to offer herself in marriage to a righteous man whose righteousness she admires, and if he likes her he may marry her subject to the conditions of marriage being fulfilled.'"