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    The first and foremost vital quality for a wife is righteousness. The Prophet, sall'Allaahu alaihi wa salam, urged the men to seek a woman of faith and piety ['eeman and taqwa], and indicated that a man finds happiness through marrying her.
    Abu Hurairah, radhi Allaahu anhu, reported that the Messenger, sall'Allaahu alaihi wa salam, said: "A woman is sought for marriage for four reasons: wealth, social status, beauty, and deen. So seek the one with deen-- may you then be successful."

    [recorded by Bukharee, Muslim, and others]

    Thawbaan, radhi Allaahu anhu, reported that when the revelation came regarding gold and silver [9:34], the sahabah, radhi Allaahu anhumma, wondered, "What then kind of weath should we keep?' And Umar, radhi Allaahu anhu, said, "I will find the answer to that." He then rode his camel fast until he caught up to Allaah's Messenger, sall'Allaahu alaihi wa salam, and he (Thawbaan) was right behind him. He asked, "O Allaah's Messenger! What kind of wealth should we keep?" He, sall'Allaahu alaihi wa salam, said:"Let one of you keep a heart that is grateful (to Allaah), a tongue that remembers and mentions Allaah, and a believing wife who would assist him in regard to the affairs of the hereafter."

    [Ahmad, as-Tirmidhee, and others]


    A similar hadeeth is reported by Abu Umaamah and 'Alee, radhi Allaahu anhumma, :"A heart that is grateful (to Allaah), a tongue that remembers and mentions Allaah, and a righteous wife who would assist you in the affairs of your life and religion: those wo are the best treasures for the people."

    [recorded by al-Bayhaqee, at-Tirmidhee, and others]

    May Almighty ALLAH bless us with pious spouse...Ameen.

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    Jub Dam-e-wapasi ho Ya-Allah
    Samne ho Jalwa-e-Mustafa
    Lub pe Ho
    LA ILAHA ILLALLAH MUHAMMEDOUR RASOOLULLAH

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      JAZAKAllah brother
      میں نےجو کیا وہ برا کیا،میں نے خود کو خود ہی تباہ کیا

      جو تجھے پسند ہو میرے رب،مجھے اس ادا کی تلاش ہے

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        jazaqallah

        Our Lord! grant us good in this world

        and good in the hereafter,
        and save us from the chastisement of the fire


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